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Fear of Looking Bad | Freedom and the Art of Letting Loose
September 15, 2016Part of what makes Jaidee such a good companion for me is that he sleeps on an Olympic Gold level. He can nap and laze around for hours and when it’s time for me to nap... -
Deliberate Practice and Mental Training – Mapping, Violin and Muay Thai
September 3, 2016As the story goes, I was 2 and a half years old and my oldest brother Gabe – then probably about 9 years old – was finishing up his violin lesson. I stood up from whatever... -
Permanence, Pain and the Gift of Acceptance | Mental Training
August 29, 2016I descend the steep stairs at the front of WKO, holding on to the handrail as the deep drop between each metal platform is designed for someone taller than I am, and feel the hot afternoon... -
Fight Thoughts: Modesty and Thinking You Are Better Than…
July 22, 2016image credit above: Dimitri Otis, Getty Images I made this Vlog the other day in response to a realization I had. In short, I had a really good sparring session against a young man at the... -
How Power-Ups and Video Game Logic can Change Your Muay Thai
July 9, 2016Muay Thai legend Kaensak Sor. Ploenjit was the first person to ever teach me the importance of “play” in Muay Thai. In our sessions he wasn’t so much interested in showing me techniques, or holding pads... -
Fear of Escalation in Sparring and Training Aggression as a Skill
June 10, 2016A lot of us feel that aggression comes with an “on/off” switch, and that we should be able to flick it back and forth based on context. Many of us who are learning Muay Thai struggle... -
Fatigue and Not Showing It – Working on Mental Toughness
April 5, 2016It’s a simple fact that we get tired. There are countless products and websites that claim ways to beat fatigue or try to sell you that there’s something wrong with you for being tired, but that’s silly.... -
My Karate Training, Positive Fear and Mental Blocks – Sifu McInnes WKO
March 31, 2016photo above, Sifu McInnes breaking ice in Japan last year For those that don’t follow me closely, in addition to my full time Muay Thai training and fighting, I also train in Karate under Sifu McInnnes... -
Losing Confidence and Losing Streaks – Mental Solutions and Values
February 14, 2016I got a message from a young woman who is struggling with a losing streak, which is something I’ve had a good bit of experience with. She knew this, and asked for my advice on how... -
Why We Quit, Early Fatigue and Long Runs – Learning from Runners
January 19, 2016Some Runner’s World Gems I read Runner’s World magazine. While I don’t identify as “a runner,” I definitely qualify as one. I run 10 km every morning before training, which is about as habitual as any...